I dont interact with strangers that much. The main point was that I would cringe even when talking to a girl I know, I went to class with for 8 years if I were with her alone. When it can be approached calmly, logically, understand how little their vision of you reflects of who you actually are.
The person we present in public is a snapshot, a two dimensional picture of a human with much more dimension than that. Getting a date is a sales pitch, which means it can have nuance, but ultimately is about presenting something and convincing someone that they want it. There are so many options for companionship, and many of them are as confused and scared as anyone.
A relationship is not to make anyone happy, it makes you less alone. Have you tried talking to a therapist or psychiatrist about this? I think heartlessviking is correct, and the issue is anxiety which needs to be addressed. When I was younger in high school , I never had any problems talking to anyone, but as I got older especially after university it got worse and worse.
For me it was never strangers, it was acquaintances, the less I knew them the worse it was. I knew it was a form of social anxiety, and it was just getting worse and worse every year which caused me to get more and more depressed. I would cringe as well, even just remembering conversations or thinking of having them.
It turns out I had really bad anxiety due to my thyroid which was getting increasingly out of control. Once that was treated, my anxiety dropped dramatically. After years and years of cringing and wincing and shaking and looking scared around others, I was able to exist normally. My point is, if you can treat your anxiety, the complications it causes should resolve of their own accord.
Therapy can also help you learn to be less critical of yourself, and even to find value in yourself. If you can treat the root causes of your depression and anxiety, your fear of talking to girls should hopefully evaporate on its own.
I am sure many of the young ladies you speak with notice this, and give you the benefit of the doubt. Whats healthy about not being able to have a face to face basic conversation with another human being coz you are too anxious about it? I think T. I do feel that you are probably focusing more on your anxiety about your problem than is healthy. You come across as a compassionate man. A man who has created a persona that he feels is pathetic.
Women may sense your insecurity. Ye Delhi ki ladkiyan kuch jayada be nautanki karti h yaar inko gol gappe mei vaccine milake do. However, many came to her defense saying that fear of needles and injections is a legitimate fear and many people across the world suffer from it.
Some people suffer from a phobia of needles. It's an actual psychological disorder. Don't make fun of her. No acting, some people fear about injection. One of my cousins too much fear about normal injection than this girl. It is technically a branch of Gynephobia , fear of women, since girls are practically women. This fear is often due to heredity or due to bad experiences involving girls, like getting injured accidentally by her.
This phobia is commonly suffered by adult men, including the gays. When encountering girls or even seeing girls on the photos or through media, symptoms could result, including heart palpations, sweating, breathlessness, anxiety, and dread. It is treated using for example exposure therapy , used to encounter gently and interact with girls under controlled conditions and doing it many times until the fear subsides.
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